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Tuesday, March 03, 2009

Count your blessings

Reading Ed's cancer updates made me want to blog again.

Never have I thought that being able to sleep soundly is a blessing, or being able to breath normally is something that takes determination. I am blessed. I should remind myself daily.


Sunday, December 16, 2007

Battlefield at the dining table

I attended this BBA-JD talk with my students. It was all about they only wanted the creme and there are only 15 places. The selection of students was mostly based on impression - were they a go-getter? Did they have a passion for the uptown life? Could they deal with stress? And whether they had the aura to be a financial person...

It kind of made me wonder what I would have become had I not gone to Waterloo and become an Artsy. The professors and presenters surely had the confidence and the glamour, but deep down, their goals, their temptation and the sense of arrogance revolted me. If I had chosen the road of society's definition of success, would I have tortured my conscience to death?

They quoted this case of where their students were interviewed for the Rhodes Scholarship (or whatever job interview it was) and they called it the battlefield of the dining table. The students' move were carefully scrutinized, their table manners, their scope of interest, their ability to make small talks, etc. I remember my UWat accounting friend also went through the same ordeal. This is not a test of ability, but a test of breed. How well the interviewees are brought up. Once again, if the student came from a well-off background, they would probably breeze through the interview, those who weren't as lucky to have that silver spoon when they were born, would either have to be socialized purely for the interview, or they would have to acquire it in a different way. I guess it would be that much easier to keep the wealth in a few hands rather than having someone climb the social ladder.

The question is, is mannerism a means or an ends. Was acquiring manners out of respect or out of prospect? The biggest question for the interviewers would be, would they want their children to have manners for the sake of  respect or face?


Preferential Treatment

Talking about equality in education, I went to a careers' talk with my students at CUHK, and at CU they prepared two coaches (not the crappy school buses) for the students, got a 'tour guide' to explain to them about the campus. Then for 3 full hours, professors from the few most sought-after departments came in and explained exclusively to our girls about their programs. I heard they don't do that for many schools, but it was obvious they were trying to lure our future 20-something EAS students into their school. The battle of universities begin a year before the girls even approach AL... it's crazy!


Friday, October 12, 2007

things that amazes me

here's an excerpt that my student wrote for class:

I go out to the porch

And breathe in

The familiar smell of honeysuckle

I slide into my weathered shoes

And walk out to the beach

 

The sea breeze ruffles my hair

The cold water swirls around my toes

I slowly sit down on the sand

And look at the colours

Weaving together in the sky

And the sun

Sinking into the horizon

 

I pick up a shell

And with my thumb

I stroke the smooth surface

The shell itself is long dead

But memories stay

Beauty remains

 

I lay back

And feel the sky high above me

And the world

Ever so wide

So vast

There is more to see than can ever be seen

There is more to find than can ever be found

More to do than can ever be done

How magical that it keeps

Everything around

Endlessly and endlessly

It amazes me how 13 year-olds can create such beauty. But even more when they look out of their windows, it's nothing other than smog, how do they find the grandeur and the stimulation to write? If this represents the girls' dream, can't we do more, to make it true for her?


Wednesday, September 26, 2007

irony

I applied for DGS when I was in F1. They didn't take me. But now I'm teaching them and I even had their uniform on the other day... haha... my head says I look like a DG gal alright, but I will always be a Heep Yunner no matter what!



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